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I see comments from other guys about the issue of not gliding well on hair…. I need to mix up more though and I have 5 kilos of beeswax sitting on my counter…Will have to try this. Hi Kathleen, First of all, let me give you a million thanks for the post, — beeswax is truly a lifesaver! I was wondering if the same should apply for the shea butter body lotions?
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These were both easy things to resolve. When I workout it feels like an oil-slick coming down from my armpits. But I have noticed no stains on my clothes, and absolutlely no odor- it totally works, but the feeling took some getting used to. I carry it around in my purse just in case I might need a quick re-apply, or for travel.
Thanks for this post! Anyone else experiencing redness and itchiness? The baking soda is irritating my skin, sadly, I really want this natural deodorant to work. I found on another website to first apply an apple cider vinegar solution to your armpits Reading Pennsylvania sluts for free let dry be applying the deodorant.
It works ok sometimes. It is supposed to re balance your PH. It is somewhat irritating to me too, but I wash it off before I go to bed and slather on some coconut oil. Taking a break from it at night is all I have needed.
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Love the deodorant, only problem, I am getting stains in my shirt under the arms and down a few inches on the shirt from the arms. What is the deal? I followed the recipe to the T. Not very happy about this: First 10 days were fine, but then… uuuh! I had to throw away two t-shirts.
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Patchouli and cedarwood are two other great unisex scents. Im about to try this. But i dont have any beeswax, tea tree oil and an essential oil! Thank you so much! Yes, it can still work. But a it will get very soft and gooey at warm temperatures, and b without the tea tree oil, it may be less effective. I find that the tea tree oil dramatically reduces body odour.
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I hope deodorant is next on the list. Not sure what to do, since I am now a convert to natural deodorant. I made a similar recipe very close withing 4 days my left underarm had some sores that were oozing clear. By the next day I had red pimples, rash and some welts. Right armpit not nearly as bad. I loved this deodorant as I hardly sweated and NO odor. After researching found it was the baking soda as it should not stay on the skin for hours and hours. This is day 4 and getting SOME better.
I have not used since the rash started. On benadryl as it is quite itchy. Doing aloe vera from the plant and tea tree. Hopefully gets better soon. The ratio for the baking soda was WAY too much from what I have researched, so be careful.
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Also, how would you go about making this Vanilla scented or unscented. Its far too masculine for me. Will deodorant leak out the bottom when I fill it? First of all I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for posting this recipe! I have tried every deodorant possible and have drawers full of Looking for someone who won t waste my time.
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If I massage it in, it kinda drips down my arm when I sweat. Anyone have any suggestions? Any tips to get this to flow easier into the bottom-fill deodorant containers? It was so thick, I had to keep tamping the container down to get the liquid in and it was very messy! I love making homemade deodorants and makeup! Keep up the great work! I tried this twice in a row. It is not hardening up? What am I doing wrong?
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I started making my own deo few months back with just coconut oil, baking soda, cornstarch and lavender oil. Next batch will add some beeswax in the mix hoping it will not melt in high temps.
The beeswax is only essential to keep the deodorant solid at warm temperatures. If you have a cool climate, or if you keep the deodorant in the fridge, you can omit it. I also have sensitive skin. Also, do the citrus and tea tree scents smell good together? Love it but hate the melting. I used to use the conventional sprays etc but felt Looking for someone who won t waste my time with the chemicals they contain.
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It works great here in upstate SC. I mix it into my coconut oil. Use equal parts apple cider vinegar and benonite clay and slather it on your pits three times a day. If you have pit hair, rest a warm flannel on your pit before you wash it trust me, there are few things more painful than ripping out a clump of pit hairs.
My husband is sensitive to baking soda and the original recipe was a bit dry and gritty for him. Valley head WV also added 1 tbsp of Redmond clay the second time I made it. Plus it does not stain clothing which is a huge plus. And the arrowroot keeps us pretty dry. I am amazed how well this works, and my sensitive skin husband has no issues using it. No baking soda burns.
Thank you for sharing! It is the best deo I have ever made, and I have been making my own for years now. I love making my own d3oderant but sometimes it stains clothing.
At the moment I am combining shea butter, cococnut oil, bees wax, baking soda and cornstarch plus lemon and lavender oil. I am wondering if I eliminate the butter if the staining will be problem solved. Anyway, when the diy deodorant becomes soft, does it separate or is it just creamy?
This is my favorite deodorant ever! I did find that I was having a bad reaction to tea tree oil and am happy to report that lemon oil is a perfect substitute! It is just as effective!
Thank you for changing my life with this recipe! My batch typically Love in lawhitton a couple of months. This turned out too thick. I had to addd coconut oil and that too resulted in a too thick mixture which I could not pour out.
It was more like a thick dough. Coconut oil also comes in a more melt resistance form called 92 degree coconut oil. If using the higher melt point coconut oil there is no need for beeswax. Unless of course you want to an even higher melt point for hotter climates. I replaced the cornstarch with the same amount of arowroot powder and added some cherry oil for the nice smell. I tried other recipes before but each one worked for my bf but.
Luckily, this recipe works great for bot of us! Been using this recipe for more than a year now. Its great exept for the fact that it gets grainy and falls off after applying. Causing deodorant grains too be a over the floor! Wonder what to do about it. Does anyone else have a problem with this staining their shirts?
I was having this problem and then switched to white, instead of yellow, beeswax. Also, I started rinsing my shirt pits with hot water or just washing on warm, which helps to clean them better.
When pouring my mixture, my concern is the amount that falls just under the push up thingy inside the container. How do you not waste the portion that falls to the bottom of the deodorant container? What can I use instead of an empty deodorant container?
I live in a tropical country so we have warm climate all year round. Any thoughts on speeding up the adjustment time or ways to mask my stink? Please and thank you for any help! It is made in China and smells like paraffin, not beeswax. It is not authentic. Made this a Colchester naughty ladies days ago and so far, I love it!
No problems with transitioning to it and no odor! I wonder if I can use more beeswax next time. The fridge is my next option but that does not seem like it will be very convenient. Thank you so much!! I absolutely love this recipe! I use arrowroot instead of cornstarch and I add about ten more drops of essential oil. Housewives wants hot sex Flat rock Michigan 48134 a note, this recipe only makes one stick.
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If I were to melt them both in the microwave and mix again would that ruin the ingredients?? Thank you for this great recipe!
I tried another one that had too many ingredients, and on top of that, I used too much tea tree oil, plus some other oils. It was way too stinky! Yours is simple and very effective! You mention using beeswax to make lotion, my question is, do you have a specific lotion recipe? I appreciate the simplicity of this recipe, too! I use plain shea butter on any really tough, dry places on my body; plain coconut oil on my arms and legs if I need it rarely ; and plain argan oil on my face daily.
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